• You have been a HUGE inspiration & strength for me these past few months Lori. Thank you. – Susanna G

  • You inspire me Lori! There is something about your energy that even from afar you’re helping me to create my own strong, beautiful, inspiring energy to share with others. – Leslie G

  • O…M…G!! Real Beauty Is has become one of my favorite & best sources for feel good, life-affirming, fantastically great advice & insights for recharging & living my best life as ME! – Leslie S

  • What an advocate you are for our TRUE selves Lori. You are one of the lightkeepers who reminds me to keep following this liberating path. I love you. And your heart. And your words. – Wendy K

  • Lori, You are such bright white light. ♥ – Stephanie A

  • Just wanted to say, Real Beauty Is: You are AMAZING for supporting all of us! – Mindful Moms Network

  • Thank you for all the good work you do, for shining brightly, and helping each of us to believe in our own selves! – Mary R.

  • “Keep up your warrior ways for truth and beauty!” – xo Jennifer Buffett

  • “Lori, The sessions I had with you have been the best sessions ever! You really tune in and really listen. They have helped a lot & given me much clarity.” – Bonnie Barrios, Professional Organizer & Lifestyle Coach

  • “Lori Fields: Connect with her and be inspired.” – Rebecca Casciano, Makeup Artist, Educator & Holistic Wellness Consultant

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The Reason Why Some People Get What They Want Most Out of Life

May 6, 2013

Did you know that the reason some people find the love of their life, make their dreams come true, amass a fortune, or otherwise attract into their life exactly what they desire most is because they always believed they would.

Now, don’t be discouraged, because even if believing in yourself isn’t your strong suit, even if you’re not used to believing you can have what you REALLY want in life, today could be the day you turn all your thoughts & beliefs around.

It’s NEVER too late to course correct.

In fact, those people who really do live the life they REALLY want, move throughout their life in a zig-zag pattern, re-adjusting, re-thinking, using their creative muscle to help them successfully navigate life’s obstacles. In sailing, this type of maneuvering is referred to as “tacking”.

They zig-zag & change direction in their response to life, but they NEVER lose sight of what it is they really want and they never stop believing they are worthy of having it.

All it requires is a willingness to get started, a deep commitment to becoming aware of and working to change the negative thoughts that are holding you back and an anchoring into your worthiness.

Guy Laliberte, the visionary founder of Cirque Du Soleil was told he was ‘crazy’ by many others. He was told ‘NO’ by loads of financial institutions when he asked them to fund his vision. But that never deterred him from believing that he would bring his imagination to life and realize his dreams.

Don’t be discouraged by others. Other people’s judgments and criticism is NEVER about you; it’s about their own fear, their own insecurity & their own inability to believe in and value themselves.

And please don’t be deterred by your own negative beliefs. Guy Laliberte succeeded in accomplishing his dreams because he never gave up & he never allowed himself to be discouraged. Every time he was told ‘no’ he simply told himself he’d find another way.

Below are a few of his principles for success. Hopefully they will inspire you too!

• Don’t allow yourself to become discouraged of overcome with fear. Instead build up a support network & community that REALLY believes in your dreams.

• Be a good gardener of you’re your dream. Nurture it, feed it, pay attention to it regularly.

• Be clear in your values.

• Realize the ways in which you are privileged.

• You may need to make adjustments along the way, but do not compromise fundamentally who you are inside you &/or what you believe.

• Evaluate danger but NEVER nurture your fear.

• Believe you can.

SO, from me to you today: please don’t give up. Don’t take your eyes or your heart off your ideal destination.
 

There is NO obstacle you can’t overcome. @RealBeautyIs

 
 

In fact, maybe what you perceive as ‘obstacles’ are really windows of possibility, showing you what you really can achieve and who you really can be when you believe in yourself.

with love, light + REAL Beauty,
xo Lori

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